Their goal is to charm you and make you think it is all about you.If you weren't blinded by the attention and weren't questioning your own self-worth, you would realize a lot sooner that your date is interested in you only because you appear weak and less worthy.Narcissists expect all the attention and will steal your good ideas, making them theirs.They will almost certainly get angry when you disagree with them.Narcissists do not think well of themselves, and to make themselves feel better they choose partners who doubt themselves and their capabilities.Let me put it this way: If you had strong self-esteem and confidence in yourself, you would not be chosen by a narcissist as a possible partner.Monica Magnetti is a Certified Life/Business Coach, Brand Expert and proud Your Tango expert.Monica holds multiple certifications, because life intertwines and you want an expert by your side.
These are some of the traits of a narcissist or someone with narcissistic tendencies.
If you have allowed a narcissist to prey on your lack of self-confidence, stop! So, assuming I'm right, if you have attracted a narcissist into your life, you may want to ask yourself how you are acting as a narcissist toward yourself. Do you subconsciously put others down when you are feeling insecure about yourself?
Then ask how you do it so subconsciously that you had to attract a narcissist to teach you a lesson. It is what you need to shift from being a victim to owning your own journey.
This is because narcissists like to control and feel superior.
People with healthy self-confidence who make the mistake of entering a relationship with a narcissist quickly become aware of the emotional abuse and cut the relationship short.