If you want to invert your penis and cut off your testicles, by all means, go for it.Call me selfish, but since it doesn’t affect me, I don’t care. Everyone is entitled to sovereignty over their own bodies.Deceiving another person into sleeping with you is rape.Knowingly violating someone else’s sexuality for your pleasure is wrong. I’ve no idea what it’s like for trans men or non-binary people so this is just my perspective. I don’t always like the way they treat me – but welcome to being a woman I guess? I think this question comes up because some people perceive trans women as ‘men who become women’. I don’t go around asking men how big their junk is, no matter how curious I might be – and if we’re chatting on Tinder, believe me, I’m curious. I transitioned from male to female ten years ago so I know a thing or two about dating as a trans woman. The way they look, the way they smell, the way they feel. I want to go bed with Tom Hardy as Rihanna for the night, but that’s me. Why do guys on dating apps feel like it’s OK to just blurt this out? You want to know what you’re signing up for, but seriously, would a little decorum kill you?
I am a trans girl, which means that the gender assigned to me at birth was incorrect.
Human sexuality is a very strange and complex thing. People can’t help what they’re attracted to, and by that logic, it shouldn’t bother you that someone wouldn’t be attracted to trans.
If you’ve read "No, I Don’t Have To Tell You I’m Trans Before Dating You," then you’ve heard about the tragedy that is Jennifer Laude, a trans woman who was murdered after a man she hooked up with learned she was trans.
Dating a trans girl is just like dating anyone else. The doctor incorrectly assumed that having a penis when I was born made me a boy, when gender in fact comes entirely from inside your mind.
It requires the same level of respect, empathy, and love you should show anyone. Unlucky for me, at a few seconds old I had not gained enough of a mastery of the english language to protest his decision, so instead I probably soiled myself and fell asleep.3. I personally identify as pansexual, I have dated boys, girls, and others on the lovely gender spectrum.