What would I even do with a girlfriend if I had one?So for years, I watched from the sidelines as the girls I liked went out with the more popular and confident guys.
Women are also attracted to indicators that their genes would survive… Here’s how the excellent sexual evolutionary biology book, “It’s Not You, It’s Biology” explains it: In any species that survives by cooperation, stuff is gotten through social power.Think of any hobbies you’ve ever thought of trying — whether it’s drawing, martial arts, meditation — and see where these classes are offered. Scientific studies have also found that men across cultures prefer about a 0.7 hip-to-waist ratio. Because it’s this body shape that would most successfully give birth to a child in our distant past.Even if you don’t meet a girlfriend, you could make a new friend that introduces you to the girls in their social circle. Turns out human babies have enormously big heads to fit that big brain.So let me now bust one of the big myths about WHERE to meet women… This doesn’t mean you both need to be the #1 and #2 Harry Potter fans. I had to become a more assertive, outgoing and interesting person.When I was first trying to overcome my shyness around girls… It’s more about finding people who have compatible values, lifestyle, and personal energy. I had to overcome many of my fears and build new conversation skills. If we’re going to be honest, it’s a woman’s appearance first and foremost.