Next time, we’ll be talking about bringing someone home to meet the parents.
If you are a first generation Pakistani Muslim like me, you’ll know what a precarious minefield this can be.
What you still date / stay with them even though they could not be around for 6months in a war zone and may not come home?
I know people sometimes degrade soldiers but girls would you not date some because of there job?
Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven.“A younger man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date.
“In turn, doing new things increases dopamine in the brain, triggering a desire to spend more time together and assisting in lighting your sexual fire.”An even bigger bedroom bonus?
Perhaps talk about how you would like to take the time to get to know someone and take things slowly.
This way, you stand more of a chance of attracting like-minded people who aren’t going to waste your time and vice versa.
Now, although implying that you want to take things slow is a good initial indicator of your attitude towards sex and dating, it is not definitive enough.
Once you are in the early stages of dating someone and you sense there is an expectation of something you aren’t willing to give, nothing is going to substitute having the conversation.
I hate to break this to you folks but you cannot rely on inference here.
There will always be certain things that don’t align with the western way of doing things and, if we aren’t careful, these can become shrouded in shame or embarrassment when there really is no need.
There is, absolutely, a way for modern Muslims to engage with and be active in the dating world but it begins with open dialogue and being unabashed by the things you believe in.