But breaking up with someone you care about is unbelievably difficult, and it took me months to finally come to terms with what I needed to do—and then, it took me weeks to actually do it, because I need to be 100% sure that it’s the right decision before I can end things for good.
The thought of making the wrong decision and causing both of us pain for no real reason made my gut twist, and I needed to be absolutely certain.
But people felt the need to judge my decisions based on what they only knew from the outside.
Some come up with formulas, like you’re supposed to wait two or three months for every year you were with that person.
But because I was the one doing the breaking up, this wasn’t viewed with concern and pity.
Guy #1 was bitter that I had broken up with him after three years and talked badly about me (at one point even suggesting I had been cheating on him with Guy #2); I was shamed for what others deemed to be not only cruelty on my part, but bad decision-making. For months, I had been debating whether I was happy in my relationship with Guy #1.
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And because I couldn’t accept the cold, hard reality of the situation, I found myself subtly trying to change Guy #1 into the person I needed him to be. You can’t change a person if they don’t want to change, nor you.
You should never date someone else until you are over your ex. It's not difficult to wait a little while to move on. The Short answer NONyet UH UHNo waynow there will those that will say yes its possible, and its also possible for Big Foot will stop by for a cup of java and Frosted flakes.
I question those that say they can fall in love with more than one person, while I think its possible its not healthy for the relationship, you can truly care for your ex and be interested in another woman, but if you're not over your ex, any future relationship is impossible, people do it but they dont tell the current partner that they are still in love with their ex I say do what ever it takes to get over your ex before starting something new.
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