Because the bride virginity is highly valued and pride in Christian marriage, with the whole family being shamed if the bride is not virgin at marriage.Rural women in particular tend to marry at a very young age than their husbands.In the past it used to be the custom for the bridegroom to be 30 years of age when getting married following the biblical example of Christ who waited until he was 30 years of age before beginning his public ministry.Traditionally the groom's parents search for a bride for their son.If the husband of a Muslim woman dies, it is the husband's brother responsibility to look after the wife and the children. Nowadays many men and women, often those, who live in urban areas as opposed to rural communities, do not follow this tradition and do not have arranged marriages but it is important to marry someone the family approves of.Im a very loving and caring person, loves to be happy and also friendly, i love my job and love humanity i like nice wears and always loves to look good steady because that makes me who im.This takes place at the husband's parents' house and often the best man/men will also be present.
Christian couples get divorced as often as anyone else.
The wedding ceremony starts with dances and music and the bride's parents give the groom a dowry, in most case money and cattle.
At the end of the ceremony the groom takes his bride to his parents' house.
Both parents prepare food and drink for the wedding and invite guests.
The groom goes to the bride's house to take his future wife to be.