She sometimes speaks so slowly and carefully it’s as if she’s reviewing individual words before committing to them.
But, as with the lyrics of the songs she writes as St Vincent – always inventive, always making disarming leaps between ideas – you can never predict where her thinking will travel next.
Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say. Keep the conversation fun Try to keep your conversation light-hearted.
On your first date, you don’t want to get into an in-depth conversation about why you don’t enjoy your job, or other issues you’ve been having.
Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time. Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable You might think that you’re being a gentleman by letting your date decide where you go on your date, but women often like to see that you can take control.
Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave, using aftershave and putting on something suitable will help you impress your date and get you off to a good start.
Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions.How they’d always make some sort of comment, intimating that it made them, like, better at oral sex? I guess the challenge became: no one wanted to get head from them.” She hoots with amusement, just loud enough to turn heads in the hushed museum.Conversation with Clark is like this: a bit unexpected, a bit arch, a bit sexy.It’s best to stay away from the conversation altogether.Your date will not be interested and it can make things feel awkward between you.