You definitely, definitely should not bring up anything that might make your date think of you as a non-starter. Listen, I got the distinct impression from my date that sex, or rather the lack of it, would be a deal-breaker. No, I’m not averse to sex; I’ve just decided to wait until marriage, for both personal and religious reasons.
That maybe he’d be fine with a few chaste dates, but eventually, he’d wanna do it. Does that mean it might be a little harder to find someone, to win the game?
We date for something more: we date to find a relationship, or get a hookup, or fall in love.Like, if in to order dunk the ball you have to bring the basket down to eye-level, you’re not really winning a game of basketball. And remember what I said about faking leading to someone getting hurt? Eventually, you’ll remember your standards and why you had them. Whatever you’re dating for, you can’t deny that there’s an object to the game.Mine’s just a little different: mine is that I’m not going to sleep with a guy until we’re married. Maybe it’s that you don’t like navel piercings or male ear piercings.