Instead of relying on beauty as my source of empowerment, I focused on basing my empowerment on my intelligence, successes, values, contributions to the world and how I helped others. In fact, some people regardless of their age, will never really grow up.You can switch the genders in this post and most points would likely still apply.They have a mind of their own and they’re more than happy to speak their opinions.However, they do so respectfully and are always open to hearing your thoughts on the matter. If your man knows what he wants out of life and gives all those things that are most important to him attention and care, then you have yourself a winner.However, if you are a woman (independent, ambitious, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a man.And if you can’t spot the difference just yet, here are some pointers.When I was in my early twenties, if a guy acted aloof, called back only sometimes and showed minimal interest, I would get hooked.You could say I was addicted to the bad boy/ unavailable boy/ player.
Our conscious self is drawn to the positive qualities we yearn for, but our unconscious draws us to the qualities which hurt us the most as children.” – Psychology Today So games used to work on me because 1) I had unresolved daddy issues and 2) At the tender age of 20, I was trying to figure out who I was and to top it off, I was ridden with insecurity and a low sense of self-worth.
If you’re dating a guy who needs you to carry him home after a night out or to keep a leash on him so he doesn’t go off an do something stupid, then I think you know the kind of guy you’re dating.
You see, grown men don’t just go about agreeing with everything their women say.
Unless, of course, that’s where he plans on staying. Grown men have plans to get themselves from point A to point B. No matter how drunk he is, no matter the situation...
if your man is able to take care of himself and get his sh*t done, then he’s a grown man.