Many of us end up alone during our prime because the deceptive perception of something better being around the corner can cause us to never just choose someone and stop looking. It’s likely we will take for granted an amazing catch – someone special who we meet and discard.
No matter how great any one option seems, you can’t seem to stop looking because one particular option may not be as great as another option out there, right? Thinking that you have a ton of amazing options to choose from makes it difficult to choose, so you choose no one – and that’s getting you nowhere.
Suzanne Kammer Suzanne is a twenty something living in Toronto, Canada.
When she doesn't have her professional pants on from 9-5, she is getting lost in a good book, a yoga class, or a tall glass of wine.
The privilege of being able to choose may be more detrimental to your dating life than it is advantageous.
This could be why so many of us inadvertently choose to remain single, neglecting promising opportunities that present themselves.He doesn’t have to know that yesterday’s hike was with a guy. As soon as he knows you could easily drop him for someone else, he’s going to put in more of an effort to make sure you’re the one he chooses. How many times have you been turned off or ran away from a guy because he wasn’t experienced?Chances are, you value a guy who has dated enough people to know what he wants, who can deal with all kinds of awkward dating situations, who has slept with enough girls to be comfortable in bed and who is full of fun date ideas.You may call up Joe when you want to grab a drink but invite Brent over when you want to stay in and watch a movie.This has become a reality of dating in the 21It’s the perfect in-between after a long term relationship.