In our twenty-five years together, we have never had a serious problem and we are still very happy."—Paolo, 64 "Pat is very special.Not only is she beautiful, but she has a wonderful sense of humor and is very giving.(I was 39 and she was 55 then.) Our relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love.We are both morning people and nearly always in a good mood.But I do know women, and lots of women in their 20’s. A few women may bridge this gap for lust or money or dimestore psychological reasons, but most of the 28-year-old women I know would prefer to date a great, stable 30-40 year-old – who also knows what Snapchat is. But don’t forget, you and your younger girlfriends are the EXCEPTION. Well older man usually don’t have sex they spend quality time with their loved ones and they make love.And the truth is that most of them are completely creeped out at the prospect of dating a guy who was alive when JFK was alive. For correction sake you can be younger and be unable to perform in bed.Okay, Evan, I agree mostly with your opinion on younger men/older women. I mean, I can see why an older man would want to date a younger woman – physically that is, but why would a 28-year-old woman want to date a man 45 or more? I can totally understand why older men go for younger women.There’s no denying that they’re, for the most part, in better shape, with better skin, and less baggage from broken relationships.
Pat offered me space, devotion and herself, which I couldn't find in anyone else. She is a best friend who reflects back to me what a good person I am, which builds my confidence and self-esteem.It’s a lot easier for a man to take out a carefree, responsibility free, baggage free, wrinkle free 28-year-old, which is why so many men try to go in that direction. Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men.Put another way, if a woman has an array of other quality options closer to her age range, what incentives would she have to date a man who is SEVENTEEN YEARS OLDER? Before any 40 people get all hot and bothered about this – I am not judging. I do think people improve with age (my wife is nodding). She doesn’t need a guy who will be taking Viagra when she’s sexually peaking at 43..Their sentiments represent a very large proportion of the opinions we heard expressed. When I saw her, I thought she was just the perfect woman for me and I was sure about that.I wasn't looking for an older woman and Karolina wasn't looking for a younger man, but it just happened.