For example, if there’s a lot of sexual tension and you want to bring her back to your place to get physical, you don’t need some cover like “let’s go back to my place and watch a movie”.
She knows the real reason you’re inviting her over, and if she wants the same thing she won’t need an excuse to rationalize it.
Now while older women are often interested in (or at least open to) dating younger men, that doesn’t mean they’re interested in dating “boys”.
They want strong, powerful men and you’ve got to show her you’re that kind of man – who just happens to be a bit younger. You can start with strong, confident body language and eye contact.
This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.
Unlike a lot of younger women who are still exploring the dating world, older women have a much stronger idea of what they want.
It’s flattering for an older woman when a guy passes up on the younger girls in favor of her.
This attention makes her feel sexy, and that feeling will instantly fuel your interactions with more passion and excitement.
When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first).
The fact is the same playful, child-like banter that works with younger women is going to work with older women too.
So if you’re chatting up an older woman, you may want to use a playful banter line like “this is never going to work out… A line like that is great because not only does it get her laughing, but by joking about the age difference you show you’re not concerned about it.
For example, if you’re on a date and feel pressure to think of something interesting to say, then say something like “I feel like I need to come up with something clever to say…” Opening yourself up like this gives her a chance to feel closer to you and connect on a deeper level.
It also helps her feel safe opening up, which is going to make the connection even stronger.