When someone has an over abundance of excess fat (obese), they start to look unhealthy, inactive, lose their shape and don't wear clothes as well and call me crazy, but most men do not find that to be attractive or as desirable as someone who's in shape.Sure, overly obese women date, but the men they date are usually very overweight themselves.Let me ask you a question: Have you ever been with an overweight man? Since everyone's definition of "fat" will vary - tis best to just have a full body shot and ppl can decide for themselves..... The average woman's body figure there is equivalent to the average 12 yr old girl in the States.
Because they are some of the vilest people I’ve known.
Maybe find a larger guy and start a work-out routine together for motivation. Things like – Over all proportions, Attractiveness, Femininity, Elegance, Grace, Care of her appearance………the list goes on.
You'll feel better OP and be more confident with yourself! To be completely fair; my wife gaining weight after we've been together for a while is quite different than initiating a new relationship with someone overweight. Since this is a constantly variable equation there’s no short and sweet answer.
My HONEST opinion (as a guy): First, it is hard to answer because you talk about your body but only show pics of your face.
Honestly, you do look overweight (but not obese, as you said), but that's not enough for it to be a dealbreaker.