Take these experiences for what they are, and don’t think he’s fallen in love with you simply because he’s been attached to your mouth all night.
Attention from upperclassmen is surely a plus in any freshman’s book, because they’re seasoned.
And hey, maybe he’s even smart and organized enough for you to make him your “study buddy.” Study dates are pretty much the best dates most college girls can hope for within the first month or so of school (news flash: college guys are usually cheap).
It’s not fair to the guy if you’re just not that into him, but you keep him around because he’s, like, obsessed with you.
Find out where the hot spots are each night of the week(end), and make sure to show up every once in a while.
When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.
Just because he’s sitting alone and doesn’t speak to anyone in the class doesn’t mean he’s a total lunatic.
He might have no idea that what he’s doing is hurting your relationships with your friends, but it’s up to you guys to stop him by cutting him out of the equation.
He’s graduating sooner than you are, and he knows it.